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voodoobass
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Kes wrote on 20-08-2012 02:02 PM

Really? My living costs make up maybe 60% of my salary, and my wages are nothing special.



well... I haven't worked in London for a while but when I was, I had s**t disposable income... apart from one job I had where I was on a pretty decent wage for my age for like 3 years, Student Loan and overdraft repayments, travelcard, rent, bills, suit dry cleaning, contact lenses etc etc - not one for living beyond my means, but after all that and food every day I didn't have anything left at the end of the week for saving and s**t.

I suppose if I had a partner I coulda shacked up and saved half my rent but I never really fancied the idea of moving in with someone as a moneysaver. In fact even if I did live with someone I'd need my own studio/office room anyway.
Also, I live in the Westcountry and down here wages are much much lower despite food and rent being quite expensive. Food is as (sometimes more) costly than in London, rent is about the same...



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voodoobass wrote on 20-08-2012 11:07 AM

I know it's a fucking joke, these days people go to uni for 3-4 years and the first job they get is going into the 'graduate recruitment' stream where they give you a job in the call-centre then work out what you're good at after watching you for six months.



Worse is where people get a degree in some mickey mouse subject and not surprisingly still can't find work, often because they aren't prepared to start at the bottom.

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Quin. wrote on 20-08-2012 01:46 PM

Yes but there is still regardless of all political and work based issues some people who are incapable or unwilling, it is a fact. It is not so simple as work not being there or unsuitable training, although that certainly doesn't help.



Yes, with our welfare state there will always be some who can't or won't work, but I bet there's a large number who aren't working today because they haven't had the right advice and training.

It's not as if it would cost anything, just give companies tax breaks for taking on apprentices which would also save on benefits.

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voodoobass wrote on 20-08-2012 11:07 AM

I know it's a fucking joke, these days people go to uni for 3-4 years and the first job they get is going into the 'graduate recruitment' stream where they give you a job in the call-centre then work out what you're good at after watching you for six months.



Worse is where people get a degree in some mickey mouse subject and not surprisingly still can't find work, often because they aren't prepared to start at the bottom.



To be honest, these days I only accept applications from people who have studied a challenging subject at a red brick university or higher.

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voodoobass wrote on 20-08-2012 01:59 PM

The thing is, right, ever since the end of WWII and probably before, we've been told that one day, work will be optional. The whole idea of, say, the automatic washing machine, was not to emancipate women so they could go work in an office, it was supposed to mean they could have more leisure time so they could bake and hang around the house in lacy panties waiting for husband to come home.

There is actually no reason WHY everyone needs a job. It actually does cost less to stay at home, tbh if you're not facing a 1:30 commute to and home from work, you don't even need to eat as much. These days the majority of money people earn basically goes right back into feeding themselves, clothing themselves and transporting themselves to an office, where they spend all day long pissing around on HF and FB calling people without jobs 'lazy', 'feckless' and all manner of similar epithets.



I don't recall work being optional, rather we'd be looking at a 4 or 3 day working week and have more leisure time. Instead we seem to be working harder and harder.

People do need work, it provides a sense of purpose and discipline which keeps society together. Just look at how people view the unemployed.

Agree about commuting, with modern technology and telecoms we should be able to work in local serviced offices, alongside our neighbours and spending money at our local shops and businesses. I'd hate to commute each way, in packed and expensive trains. Far too stressful all round.

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Living in Brighton, and having heard and spoken to many gay men, some of whom are very good friends of mine, I can categorically state that their voices are no more high pitched than yours.

F**k me, even by extreme trolling standards, this is just f*****g lame!



Unfortunately it's not trolling.



What would you call it then?



Sheer stupidity.

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voodoobass wrote on 20-08-2012 01:59 PM

The thing is, right, ever since the end of WWII and probably before, we've been told that one day, work will be optional. The whole idea of, say, the automatic washing machine, was not to emancipate women so they could go work in an office, it was supposed to mean they could have more leisure time so they could bake and hang around the house in lacy panties waiting for husband to come home.

There is actually no reason WHY everyone needs a job. It actually does cost less to stay at home, tbh if you're not facing a 1:30 commute to and home from work, you don't even need to eat as much. These days the majority of money people earn basically goes right back into feeding themselves, clothing themselves and transporting themselves to an office, where they spend all day long pissing around on HF and FB calling people without jobs 'lazy', 'feckless' and all manner of similar epithets.




Yeah, you see if it wasn't for taxpayers, there wouldn't be money for people to sit on the dole all their lives with f**k all inclination to contribute to society themselves. I can understand people falling on hard times but when you abuse the system, like one or two on here, and have zero intention of getting off your a**e and getting a job and supporting yourself, then I have no qualms in calling you a lazy c**t. I dunno So I'm pretty sure you will understand why people get pissy when about 25% of their salary in the average scales goes on tax and NI to support those who feel they are entitled to sit on their a*s and watch daytime telly all week long. And why people who achieve something get pissy about getting hit with even higher tax to support said lazy bums who in turn sneer and resent them whilst not doing anything to further or better themselves.



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And they walk funny.

And girls do, after a bum.

You can tell when a girls had a bum.

They walk gay.



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People do need work, it provides a sense of purpose and discipline which keeps society together. Just look at how people view the unemployed.




OK, so this is a fundamental - there is a HUGE difference between 'Work' and 'a Job'. A lot of people who have well-paying jobs don't actually work very hard; a lot of people whose wages are shit work very very hard indeed. I agree people need work to provide a sense of purpose, that's why even if I won the lottery tomorrow I would still be running a company or a business of some sort because I have the desire to create and to grow a project for the sheer joy of doing things, to invest in other people and see them do well... but what is also necessary is more flexibility for people to work hours to suit their specific needs, and people need to be empowered to learn trades and to start their own companies and businesses, working for themselves and their communities rather than some faceless multinational.

I have more purpose and discipline than ever, and that's because I'm furthering interests closer to home, doing things that matter and not giving 60% of my waking hours over to some hypocritical billionaire politician who doesn't even know my name despite speaking to me on the phone every day.


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ceekay wrote on 20-08-2012 02:39 PM

Yeah, you see if it wasn't for taxpayers, there wouldn't be money for people to sit on the dole all their lives with f**k all inclination to contribute to society themselves. I can understand people falling on hard times but when you abuse the system, like one or two on here, and have zero intention of getting off your a**e and getting a job and supporting yourself, then I have no qualms in calling you a lazy c**t. I dunno So I'm pretty sure you will understand why people get pissy when about 25% of their salary in the average scales goes on tax and NI to support those who feel they are entitled to sit on their a*s and watch daytime telly all week long. And why people who achieve something get pissy about getting hit with even higher tax to support said lazy bums who in turn sneer and resent them whilst not doing anything to further or better themselves.



Goes back to what I said before about work, not a job. People need a 'life's work', a vocation. One you know what it is you want to do and you start doing it, it's easy, but I think unfortunately the state school system in this country encourages mediocrity. Obviously some schools are better than others, but still. Of course, parents are more responsible for how their kids turn out than the school system but when you have several generations of mediocrity under the same roof, is it any wonder that people are getting generally more feckless as time passes? Yes, there are a fair few idlers but I can't help feeling that the media-fuelled wrath is all part of a greater obfuscation of the real issues.

I'd also like to mention DMX in this as I remember a while ago many many forum members ripped on him for sitting on the dole for a while and refusing to do work that he thought would be pointless or a hinderance. He was roundly condemned at the time and now he's probably in the top 10% of HF/former HF member earners, so I think it is fair to say that sometimes refusal of a shitty McJob can be justified.



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voodoobass wrote on 20-08-2012 04:50 PM

OK, so this is a fundamental - there is a HUGE difference between 'Work' and 'a Job'.

A lot of people who have well-paying jobs don't actually work very hard; a lot of people whose wages are s**t work very very hard indeed.



Very, very true.

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voodoobass wrote on 20-08-2012 04:50 PM

OK, so this is a fundamental - there is a HUGE difference between 'Work' and 'a Job'.

A lot of people who have well-paying jobs don't actually work very hard; a lot of people whose wages are s**t work very very hard indeed.




By that definition, in summer I have a job as most of our clients go away for months at a time. I work hard at other times of the year. I also work long hours - 8.30 - 6 most days. Sometimes later. I have however in my 20 working years worked my butt off in some jobs for very little return (i.e. NHS, Saffa local government) and other jobs have been easier which makes you feel you're not working hard. I don't think you can really differentiate like that.

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